why do we fall?

ok so everyone gets hurt that's life people use us people hurt us people lie to themselves and others with out knowing it  my ex did she killed me but she never meant to she would never hurt any one the only reason we get hurt is other people we let them in too our lives and they mess up and end up cutting us to ribbons in the process but does any one think what if they didn't where would we be today im playing rugby if my ex hadn't hurt me i wouldn't because id have never found the strength to start playing again after i got hurt   but here i am but its not just lovers who hurt you friends, family, anyone but as you fall you learn and what you learn is how to get back up how too stand at the on your own too feet how to take the pain from any card life throws at you  and this is why we fall crash and burn